Day 6 of Journalling

Today, I noticed that it hasn't stopped raining since last night. I'm still thinking about whether there are classes today. I never paid attention to if there is a suspension in Pasig. I had always looked at Manila since I was a student there for 9 years and I reviewed for 2 years in Ne Manila. That is near Manila. I lived in Manila too for 6 or 7 months. I saw that Yorme Isko already suspended the classes. I did not see any announcement from Mayor Vico.

I'm a bit frustrated about Mayor Vico, however, it's just August.

I'm just so lazy to go out right now and to do anything at all. I'm just watching Youtube videos and drinking coffee. I have decided not to join my parents to the family appointment with El Shaddai, however, I must take a bath and go to the church tomorrow. I feel that not taking a bath hinders me from doing the tasks that I want to do and kind of just makes me lazy in general. I think I have to get up and take a bath and do the morning things that I need to do to get me pumped up for the day before I wake Alex up. This will apply to when we are finally living together.

It is looking sunny outside and I am feeling guilty that I did not join my parents so I closed my curtain to create an illusion that it is still dark. I actually wanted to open my curtains when I sleep so that I can let the sunlight in when I wake up without opening the windows and having to listen to the early morning chat of my neighbors outside but my room is directly looking through another window that keeps their lights on at night, probably their living room, because that is what we do too, so I cannot open it since I would not be able to sleep.

I really wanted to do condo living since I do not want neighbors. And I am in a lesbian relationship. It will just be us. No kids. I do not want any pets. Alex and I do not want any kids because we want to travel a lot. She also knows that I do not want to take care of anything or worry about anything only her we would not have any pets.

I know a lot of people but I don't know if I have even 10 "friends" in the deep sense of that word. We might have known each other at some point in our lives, shared some moments, but, are you really my friend or have I been a true friend to you or are we friends or even just connected (not in a digital sense)?

I finally decided to just open the windows to my room to let the natural light in. I think I will take a bath too since I do not feel like doing anything anymore. It is just clear that I will not do any work today but I want to just chill but in this room, it is not going to work.

The sun is full shining outside and I feel so awful for not going with my parents to Amvel. Although, I feel a little bit well since I ate. I do not really feel hunger when you are sitting down but when I get up, the world is spinning. I had my first real meal for the day after taking a bath. I feel and smell gross. Ever since I turned 29 or ever since I saw Rowena Tsai's video about being a productive potato ( I did not know such term exists), I refuse to just be a couch potato and not just do anything like just taking a bath. I think that helps with my overall mood. It is like taking a bath will wake me up and get me to do things.

I watched this Youtube video of Lilian talking about her sexuality, she is bisexual. In a sense, I identify with her explanation of bisexuality, however, I do not identify with any gender identity in the LGBTQIA spectrum.

Alex is a hard butch lesbian. At the moment, I am not attracted to anybody. I am never attracted to anybody when I am committed to a relationship. I love her.

I am listening to Detail Therapy and I am already pretty moved by Amy Landino in AmyTV, what she talks about, what she does, but, now I am listening to her inspirations Mel Robbins and Gretchen Rubin. And they are both lawyers. This is so enlightening and affirming that I am on the right track. I do not want to be that old and figure out that I do not want to be lawyering. Right now, I have failed the bar three times and I think that is God's way of saying that lawyering is not for me. I really wanted to write a book. But I do not what I want to write about.

Day 5 of Journalling

Today, I noticed that I have become "fat" again. I was obese but I am still overweight but I noticed today that my fats are more noticeable. It began while I was scanning through my photos for the photos of the twins together. I had to go through my pictures through months. My overweight wasn't noticeable in April. I am so obsessed with my appearance, not really about being narcissistic. However, I wanted to look and be my best for the future. I wanted to live a healthy and full life that is why I wanted to slim down a bit. My body measure goal is to fit in a medium size. I am currently at extra-large. I don't know why I am having a hard time slimming down now. I have been doing what I did before. I think I have to go to the doctor to find out. But right now, I don't have the money yet.

When I went downstairs to eat, Kathleen asked me how old is she now. It's their birthday today since she's a twin. She has a twin sister Katherine. Kathleen has been the closest to me over all of the four siblings. She always wants to play and talk to me even though I am not cable. I bought them a cake since their dad said they'll have a cake when they are 7 years old. This is my gift to them even though I don't have money or even work yet.

I should be time batching and organizing my schedule. I saw Milanote in the video that I watched on Youtube. It's becoming unproductive for me because I have so many tabs opened and I tend to change through tabs and then forget that I was doing something. I hope this app helps me focus.

I haven't done brainstorming yet.

This is frustrating. I do not know what to do or put in the Milanote. I just have all these ideas that I wanted to be doing but I don't know where to start.

Day 4 of Journalling

Today, I noticed I was calmer when I wake up at my own pace and I am not rushed by anything. Of course, I was a bit annoyed when Mama shouted that they were about to go to the funeral. I went back to sleep. I was only again woken up by my alarm but at that time, I was already ready to wake up.

I got an email for an SEO job. I know SEO but I don't know how to. I talked to Alex. She said I should prepare first before answering the email. Good thing we have Skillshare now.

I decided to clean my room and reorganize the furniture AGAIN. I also wanted to try on the wallpaper. I managed to cover one wall and decided to reorganize the furniture. It sucks! My idea was that I was to position my work area facing back from my bed so that I won't get tempted to be lazy. This is kind of when I was looking for positions for my study table so that I can't be lazy to study only I am lazy by nature since I was not enjoying that anymore. I enjoy writing. I enjoy reading. I enjoy speaking.

Magic of New Beginnings..

 It's already a cliche, talking about the magic of new beginnings. A lot has mentioned this when they are about to change their life and that's pretty much what I wanted to do. At the beginning of 2019, devastated from a recently (not really recent because it has been 11 months since the relationship ended) and frustrated about not living the life that I imagined living since I wanted to the things I was not able to do when I was still in law school. I vowed to do them in 2019. Well, that relationship ended in February 2018 but I still kind of lingered for a couple of months and still lingered but no longer expected for her to come back. Anyway, as early as December 2018, I decided I will no longer have connections with my ex anymore and just focus on creating the life that I want. When 2019 started, I listed some goals that I wanted to achieve within the course of the year or by the end the year.

With each step, it becomes easier to walk away from the norm. And I can say it is really hard. You will disappoint and offend a lot of people, especially those that are supporting your current lifestyle, those that love you no matter what, but at the end of it all, what really matter and what is important is that you are happy with the choices, steps and decisions you make. The beginning is always the hardest but it gets easier with every decision. And with every win, something in you solidifies and you become happy as you walk away to a happy life.

It's the last day of July today, my sister's birthday, however, I am feeling a bit frustrated because it has been three months that I am unemployed. I do not know exactly when but I decided to just go full-time with freelancing. Applying was not a problem, however, I was having a hard time getting up and going to interviews whenever I have an appointment. It's particularly hard because I don't have money. I think all my money went to set up my Singapore Trip this August 16-19, but I also did not want to go out and interact with people other than my family and Alex.

I'm thinking whether I was still depressed because this resembled what happened in 2017 after I learned that I flunked the Bar. However, this is a different case now. I really did not want to interact with people just because I did not like people in general. It is not like before when I was in hiding because I was avoiding the topic of me flunking the Bar at that time. I read that when you are lonely, it is more likely that you wanted to be alone. That was me before, I always wanted to be alone and that I just wanted my ex to give me attention. Over the course of 2018, after going to her house for the last time and not seeing her there, drinking till a dropped and not get any response from her, I decided to just stop and pick myself up because this is not me. I have become pathetic and desperate in every sense of those descriptions.

Day 3 of Journaling

I woke up at 4 am but I did not stay awake. I was thinking of why am I waking up THAT early? It's not like I needed my alone time YET. I really wanted to be alone. I like being alone and doing things alone. I have been doing things alone for most of my life. Of course, I rely on my mom to do the other household stuff in the house but I can do it too.

Alex and I have plans to move to Cebu next year. I don't want to call it living in but that's pretty much what is going to happen.

Recently, I have been so stressed out and sad about not getting writing jobs. I wanted to have that locked down before having to move to Cebu. I want to be self-supporting and independent but I can't yet. My parents do not know that this is not yet a stable and regular thing. I am getting frustrated but it's only been 3 months since I was unemployed and a month after I have decided I will do this full working from home for fulltime.

I am editing this travel blog with Wix. I need better images and also put my stories first before I publish the website. I plan to post my travels on that website and my experiences with life. At the beginning of 2019, devastated I recently (not really recent because it has been 11 months) ended a relationship and I wanted to the things I was not able to do when I was still in law school. I vowed to do them in 2019. Well, that relationship ended in February 2018 but I still kind of lingered for a couple of months and still lingered but no longer expected for her to come back. Anyway

I was listening to a book in Blinkist earlier, The Robots are coming! by Andres Oppenheim. It scared me a little since the profession that I wanted or what I was trying to practice will be replaced by robots or technological advancements someday. But then I think that won't happen in a very long time or just for 10-15 years because the Philippines is a bit delayed with the technological advancements.

I should assign a day dedicated to just learning through Skillshare.

Day 2 of Journaling..

Today, I've noticed I am not as active as yesterday. I went back to bed again as I don't feel like moving today. But I have to get up and do something though.

I got up and went downstairs. I saw Mountain Dew as I was getting water in the refrigerator. It's cold but whatever. I want it. I want something sweet. I want cake too but I haven't bought one. I've been craving sinc4e last week but I won't buy since I'm so lazy, I don't have money and no one would buy for me. If only Alex is here.

At 2:30pm today, we met at Shakey's Buting to celebrate Grace's birthday tomorrow. We talked about the condition of her baby. Luna's (her baby's name) organs, not just her lungs, were not in the proper position. Apparently, TMC has declined for them to apply as a charity case. She's choosing between Makati Medical Hospital or St. Lukes Hospital in BGC. I told her to consider proximity since either way both of these hospitals have complete facilities for Luna and I believe St. Luke's is nearer to them since BGC is nearer to Buting than Makati Medical Hospital.

I was planning a baby shower for her also but I decided to forgo the big celebration. Simple nalang since baka nga kasi mangailangan sya ng help after delivery.

Nagtext nga pala yung fire volunteer na friend ni ate riah. Kukunin na daw yung donations since may sunod kanina sa Maybunga. Ok na rin. For donations nalang talaga yung mga yun. Ayoko na sila isuot.

I haven't landed a job. Akeem Murray has not messaged me yet regarding his feedback. I don't know if he liked my article. In the meantime, I found this website that caters to Filipino freelancers only.

I am trying to create a website with Wix. Some of the jobs in Upwork requires this skill or skill in creating a website, video editing, audio editing, copywriting, proofreading. I want to land a full-time writing job to be qualified to proofread. I believe I can do it but I just want writing experience first. I also wanted to write a book.

I used to believe that I love you was enough.

I used to believe that I love you was enough. And that if you both love each other it would be easy and it would be stupid to not be together. And that love is supposed to conquer everything. I must have been, somehow, bitter at the outcome of my first serious relationship. No matter how I tried to stay positive in life. I must have been angry all this time because I feel defeated and betrayed. I told my secrets. I bared myself. But I trusted the wrong person.

Love is enough. God is Love. God is enough.

I will never stop believing in love because that is what lead me to you and ultimately, to my true self. And it is what has got me through all this time. When I finally meet the person that is worthy of my trust and love, I would be ready, physically, emotionally and mentally. I hope the same for you.

I know I said it a hundred times, but I'll say it anyway. Thank you for allowing me to feel this when I'm still at my worst. I thought that you can never handle me even at my best. Thank you for making me realize my true self. Thank you for letting me go. Thank you for the times you made me feel loved. And thank you for making me part of your future even for a brief period.

I'd probably love you always in a certain way. I have built a future with you in it, It will take years to get you out of my system.